Expert Relationship Coach & Love Therapist in London and remote (online) - move from heartache to love

Karin Peeters At Vitalis Coaching & Therapy is a specialist Love Coach & Relationship Therapist since 2008.

You know you need this. But for people who only see your life from the outside it would come as a surprise (not that you’re planning to tell them). They see your high-profile job, healthy pay check, sociable partner and exciting trips abroad. You’re busy, and fun (most of the time), and you try to be kind. Nobody would ever guess. To others, it looks like you’ve nailed life.

But they don’t know that you often feel terribly insecure on the inside, your thoughts spinning with anxious scenarios. Especially around your partner. It’s really confusing you, how can you feel so strong and capable under most circumstances, yet be só affected when you fear you’ve done something wrong. How come, you wonder, can you feel so independent, and yet get só caught up in worries that this relationship too is going to end…

Relationships are tricky stuff. Discover what Relationship Coaching, Counselling & Therapy in London and online can do for you, as feeling loved and loving is vital to our well-being.

Life is precious. How we love matters.

Enjoy that instant feeling of relief, knowing you’ve taken the first step to increase your self-confidence as a partner, so you can finally be fully and unapologetically yourself in your relationship:

My Vision of love and Relationships 

How to make sure love doesn’t hurt anymore

I believe romantic relationships are the place where our unresolved pain meets the unresolved pain in our partner. Which, if we’re not aware of this, results in a delicate and unfortunately destructive dance between two broken hearts…

On top of this, I believe we unconsciously yet deliberately choose this particular partner exactly because of their capacity to make us feel hurt and frustrated, lonely, criticised or insecure like no other person can. And vice versa, that we are a catalyst that reveals the unfinished business in our partner’s life story…

Rather than a sign of failure in our choice of partner, or proof that our relationship is somehow doomed, how about our partners’ ripping off the plaster from our past wounds is an invitation to grow and to heal? What if their unique capacity to get right into those painful parts of us is the real reason why we are together, and that looking at the old wounds our partner makes visible holds the key to deep joy, true connection and the intimacy we crave?

I believe that the challenges in our relationship are an invitation to heal from our past, and to have fresh, new experiences as a couple. And if we don’t take the bull by the horns, the painful patterns repeat and show up again and again with subsequent partners.

This world is full of suffering. If the embrace with our own partner does not feel loving and safe, what hope is there for our world? Let’s begin in our own homes, our own hearts… and may the love we find bring goodness to everyone it touches.

Life is precious. How we love matters.

Meet Karin Peeters - Relationship Expert

Hi, I’m Karin.

I'm an experienced Coach and qualified Counsellor & Psychotherapist with a full-time private practice experience in the City of London and online since 2008.

I successfully completed a five year Counselling and Psychotherapy degree at the Centre for Counselling & Psychotherapy (CCPE) in London.

My clients often compare me with a bridge, successfully applying the ancient wisdom traditions of the East to Western life.

I work in English and Dutch.

How I came to this work has been a profound journey and I’d love to share it with you via two personal stories.

One is uplifting, the other deeply touching. The second comes with a bereavement warning, so please go gently if you’re feeling grief…

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Expert Love & Relationship Coaching to improve all your relationships

Relationship Therapy & Coaching supports you in many different types of connection with others. Including that relationship you might be longing for, but just can't find. We coach you through times of worry in existing or desired relationships, a divorce, separation or bereavement. Coaching, Counselling and Therapy can also help with developing the skills and confidence to make friends, finding ‘the one’ and overcoming social anxiety.

At Vitalis Coaching & Therapy we’d love to support you in understanding yourself and others better.

Together we’ll improve the way you relate with those around you and as a result of the coaching process you‘ll also experience a more loving relationship with yourself. 

“The best gift I ever given to myself were these relationship therapy sessions. I contacted you because I didn't understand why I felt and reacted the way I did in my love life. I wanted to get to know myself better and needed someone to help me with that. I'm very pragmatic myself and you found the perfect approach for me. We analysed a bunch of situations and feelings together, you asked the exact right questions and motivated me to step out of my comfort zone and do exercises which led me to very important insights.

I feel much more at ease and happier now and I got to know myself so much better. I'm forever grateful for this experience and wish that everyone would gift themselves this!”

Ankie